15 San Diego Date Night Restaurants Perfect for a Hot Date

The struggle to find a date night spot that strikes the perfect balance between ambiance and appetite is real. Never fear! We’ve rounded up 15 sweet San Diego date night restaurants perfect for getting cozy and enjoying some unique bites with your other half.

15 Date Night Restaurants in San Diego


Wormwood is San Diego’s first absinthe bar and bistronomic restaurant. Grab a seat at their intimate bar if you can find a seat, or sit down for dinner in their restaurant or garden; both feel like they are straight out of Paris. The perfect environment for a romantic and hot date.


Madison has received plenty of well-deserved praise for its beautiful cocktails and stunning architectural design over the years, and it’s a perennial favorite of ours. Whether you take a seat at their intimate bar, or grab a cozy booth or table for dinner, you can’t go wrong.


This North County standout has all the warm atmosphere of its namesake and then some. Campfireboasts a seasonally-driven, curated menu that rotates almost weekly. Though the menu features highly elevated and imaginative dishes like whole roasted fish with black garlic romesco and smoked avocado leaf panna cotta, the setting is anything but fussy – it has a great neighborhood vibe.

Rich with rustic wood beams sprawling to the ceiling and shelves lined with colorful artisanal pottery, the setting is intimate, with no shortage of charm—teepees on the patio, anyone? It’s easy to see why this is one of the best San Diego date night restaurants!


This San Diego gem, nestled on an unassuming corner of India Street in Mission Hills, has some of the best food and cocktails in San Diego and a mid-century modern environment that is sophisticated and feels like a very comfortable neighborhood bar at the same time.

(Note: Starlite is currently undergoing renovations and is expected to reopen in June of 2024).

Born and Raised

We think Born & Raised is consistently one of the top few restaurants in San Diego. They get everything right! Try to get a table upstairs so you can enjoy the open-air views of Little Italy while you eat. But if you can’t, snuggling up in a booth in the dimly-lit main dining room downstairs is a perfect place to get closer to your date. And save plenty of room when you go—you’ll want to try everything from the charcuterie board to dry-aged steak to the cheesecake—and a few cocktails to wash it down. That’s the way we do it, anyway!

Seneca Trattoria

Seneca is a Roman trattoria and has been a highly sought-after dinner reservation in San Diego since they opened. It’s located at the top of the InterContinental Hotel overlooking the bay, the San Diego skyline, and beyond – some of the best views in San Diego. The food, design, and cocktails are all beautiful – perfect for a hot date!

Herb & Wood

Herb & Wood serves rustic, wood-fired dishes and old-school cocktails are served in a beautifully designed space that makes us feel like we’ve left San Diego and arrived in Europe for the evening…you can’t beat that.

The Nolen

The Nolen is a rooftop bar and lounge every bit as swanky as that description implies—the perfect spot to end a romantic evening. Sip a signature cocktail and enjoy small bites while taking in views of the San Diego skyline and harbor. You’ll most definitely lock in date number two!

Bleu Bohème

Craving romance à la française without leaving sunny San Diego? Allow distinguished Chef Ken Irvine to spirit you away to Europe for an evening of cozy Provençal hospitality at his intimate French oasis. Relax and sink into Bleu Bohème’s transportive hospitality—where stellar service and globally inspired French fare turn dates into lasting memories.


Hillcrest hideaway InsideOUT is quite possibly the most unique restaurant setting in all of San Diego—great for a memorable date! Bask in an airy, palm-filled atrium with a striking water feature, and expect cuisine showcasing sunny SoCal ingredients through a Mediterranean lens. The restaurant is 18+ and the scene is full of Hillcrest’s colorful personalities, so glam up and your escape from the daily grind alongside your plus-one in San Diego’s one-and-only urban oasis built for memorable nights out(side)!

Mister A’s

For over 50 years, Mister A’s personally crafted hospitality and dazzling urban views have set the standard for sophistication high atop America’s Finest City. Sweeping skyline vistas stun from both the polished mid-century “Blue Room” and the expanded outdoor lounge lined with upscale seating. Mister A’s time-tested take on wining and dining makes it a date night essential!


Where Almalfi romance meets La Jolla charm. San Diego tastemakers agree—when it comes to the La Jolla restaurant scene, Marisi is a stand-out! Allow the coastal riches of both Italy and SoCal to entwine here through responsibly sourced regional bounty spotlit in a sexy atmosphere with vibrant design cues. Your date will be impressed!

Jeune et Jolie

Seeking a fresh lens on fine French cuisine sans stuffiness for your special night? Look no further than this Michelin Star-rated gem of North County. Wow your senses with vibrant four-course menus putting innovative Cali-French flair center stage, savoring seasonal selections by candlelight in the dining room or al fresco under the stars.

Wolf in the Woods

Tucked into Mission Hills’ historic charm, the interior of this sanctum is inspired by the legendary folklore and arts of native New Mexico. Honoring the tenacious farmers fueling their kitchen while spotlighting artisanal winemakers, Wolf in the Woods pours a healthy dose of heart into every cellar pull and thoughtfully plated bite. It’s tiny and has intimate little nooks for getting closer with your hot date.


What could be better for a hot date than a gorgeous restaurant located in a museum in Balboa Park?! Located on the Commons level of the Mingei International Museum, ARTIFACT’s craft cooking is inspired by ancient methods, spices, and botanicals, surrounded by inspiring art. “ARTIFACT by Night” specialty dinners transport you through iconic regions worldwide alongside curated drink pairings. Follow the scents of sumac, cardamom, and smoke clear across continents for a special, intimate evening—no passport required! Then stroll Balboa Park after dinner to take the romantic vibe to the next level.

Enjoy your date night, San Diego!

You can’t go wrong with any of these restaurants for a hot date – a second date is virtually guaranteed!

See you there!

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